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"I guess this is the place where I need to introduce myself.
You can see my name up there.

I am a rookie artist in the world full of various artists with different fantasies of their own. Yeah, I watched those fantasies from afar. The world of art is like a river and I just follow it. So far, I kinda like the tide.

There, probably give you some picture of my back story."

Take note:
- Grammar and I are worst enemies so don't be surprised if I typed something wrong.
- Just giving you a fair warning...I'm a moody person---and when I snapped, I do 'snap' (people's spine) hard.
- World is also a mirror. I'll respond to the way I'm treated.
- If I cross the line, just tell me WITHOUT using strong words. Please.
- Same here, if you cross my safety line, I'll tell you directly.
- For goodness sake, don't come to me and talk about relationships, I'm a terrible counselor.

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RULES FOR YE ALL ABOUT REQUESTS/ART TRADES:
- There's a folder called "Requests, Gifts n ATs". Comment there.
- I won't accept any request/ ATs from NOTES now. Follow the rule above.
- Keep in mind that you're NOT the only one who's posting a request there. There's a long queue so please, don't rush me.
- Mature stuff, I don't do it. Unless you have good reasons why I should.
- Like everyone in here, I have the RIGHT to refuse. If you don't like that, then turn LEFT and ask someone else who will do it.
- Don't spam requests and ATs comments, guys. Spam is delicious and all but most people don't like it HERE.
- "Comment Wars". People arguing in the comment section. If I see that again, I'll disable comments.

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Guys, I hate to bother ya fine folks with another negative journal but I want some opinions here.
As you can see from the title, I have---a "situation".

I'll just skip the "Oh, bad stuff is happening and news keep showing bad news" stuff and ask you this.

"How do you deal with friends that keeps blaming each other and made you stuck in the middle of this blame game?" :facepalm: :fork: :faint:
I'm running out of advice to give and patience is wearing THIN.

In case you don't understand, I'll tell you what happen. (I won't put their real names here)

These 2 'friends' of mine (they're NOT in DA) were arguing about their essay homework with one claiming that the other copied his work. Y'see, they used to get along so well---until this. You know what? They asked me to judge who was at fault there. I was like :stare:... When I hesitated and tried to calm them down and shot some advice, they BOTH blamed me for not siding with either side and one of them called me "the worst support friend he ever have" while the other said "I knew you are with that cheater."

:stare:...."What?" (What's with all this 'siding' have to do with anything?!)

As if that isn't bad enough, another friend of mine---get a little 'angsty' and freaking cut himself, man. I caught him right on the spot and, y'know,I tried to help. "F--- off!" was the reply I got. Found out later that his girlfriend dumped him.

Seriously, what is wrong with people these days? It's like---I don't know, like I'm in a lame drama movie where everyone I met in real life are all super sensitive. Ugh, Dios mio...

So, sum up:
Case 1: friends tried to pull me to their sides...and end up blaming me for their troubles.

Case 2: a very serious self-harming person that refuses to get better.

...and guess what? I'm beginning to see Case 2 HERE ON DA as well. (Actually, it's all over the internet. Let's just say that I receive 7+ notice journals of people declaring to do---THAT. Sorry guys, no names mention here. For their peace of mind...and privacy.)
People with emotional breakdown, yes I understand---but when I tried to help, it's a different story. I got blamed, reprimanded, blackmailed, stuffed with words that I did NOT say. Guess I can just sit back and munch on popcorn then? :steaming:

So guys,
Any advice or opinions on how to deal with this?

And please, no 'fighting comments' here. Another situation and I think I myself might snapped.

Sorry folks. I wish I can promise that my next journal will be a blissful one but I'm not so sure. Anything can happen on a split second.
See ya next journal.

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"Mankind, ye hath corrupted thy Free Will...What has happen to thee?"
---Innocent People
"Don't look at troubles as obstacles. See them as challenges: How will we deal with them?"
---Morale Booster & Conscious Slapper
"The word 'best friend' should not exist. It'll make others jealous."
---Psychotic Freak
"Madness is not sickness. It's the outcome of abuse and despair."
---Psychotic Freak & Conscious Slapper
"Love is a bird. Don't put it in a cage for it will die. Let it fly freely---even if one day it might never come back to us, we know it found itself in a better place."
---Metaphoric Idiot
"Free Will could be a gift or a curse for humanity. It's up to us on how we'll look at it and how we'll do with it."
---Morale Booster & Conscious Slapper
"Happy with what you have is the best thing you can do."
---Morale Booster
"Possessive friends are your prison wardens..."
---Metaphorical Idiot
"What's the point of adding more adjective words in front of the word 'friend'? That's just discriminating. In the end, we're all friends..."
---Conscious Slapper
"If a person does not do anything, how can he get any wiser?"
"How can you help others when you can't even help yourself?"
---Conscious Slapper
"A kingdom ruled by fear, rebellions are bound to happen. A kingdom ruled by respect, loyalty is absolute."
---Metaphoric Idiot
"When you can't find what you want, make one (or a few) for yourself."
---Conscious Slapper
"Don't ask stupid questions about relationships. Relationship can be build without saying a word."
---Conscious Slapper
"Don't feel bad if things didn't go your way. It's probably opening a way for others to go first. Yours will eventually come..."
---Conscious Slapper
"Changes in Life is like a river. You can try to fight the tides but eventually you'll get tired and possibly drown."
----Metaphoric Idiot
"There are ways to follow the river. Either jump in and let it takes you or just follow it on land. The former, you have no control over the changes. You might go down the waterfall. The latter, you can follow the river safely and avoid the waterfall where the river path splits..."
---Metaphoric Idiot & Conscious Slapper
"Sometimes, silence is the best answer...for any soft words could unintentionally turn in to a spark near a dormant volcano..."
---Conscious Slapper
"Pessimism and Optimism are equally good. One warned us not to be careless and told us the consequences while the other told us to look for the good in bad things in life... Balance them well."
----Conscious Slapper
"Time is no one's friend or foe. It just minding its own business and moving forward at the same pace. Don't blame it for your misfortunes..."
---Conscious Slapper
"Everything has limits...even patience and tolerance have their breaking points..."
---Conscious Slapper
"Reversed psychology? Trust me, it does not work on everyone..."
---Psychotic Freak

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:iconcloe-patra:
cloe-patra Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
thanks a lot for faving my work :aww:
touch the light by cloe-patra
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dieKritzelei Featured By Owner 4 days ago
Thank you very much for the faves!
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nilza999 Featured By Owner 5 days ago  Student General Artist
yo it's me again (remember i got scared of your moon drawing lol)

just a tip tho when you watermark try not to put it in the corner/away from the drawing

because someone could erase it/crop it out from your art

just a heads-up though \('v')/
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TheChaosRuler Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2015
hello?
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Nikonfinest Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2015  Student Photographer
wow thanks so much for the watch!! Heres a watch back ;) I cant wait to see more of your amazing art!
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feainne Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
many thanks for the favs :peace: :heart:
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BemalteFlugel Featured By Owner Jun 27, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Hey, thank you for the favorite!  C :
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Manizhe-Mehr Featured By Owner Jun 23, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank u s😄 much 4 the fave! Have a nice day.
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NeonBoneyard Featured By Owner Jun 22, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you so much for the fave bomb! Greatly appreciated. :icondragonlick:
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Lolita-Artz Featured By Owner Jun 18, 2015  Professional Digital Artist
Stamp thanks fav by Digithalie i hope you will like my new creation :)Sunken mysteries by Lolita-Artz  Request 23# ~ Lolita-Artz by KiraiMirai
Facebook - Stamp by Laletizia www.facebook.com/pages/Lolita-…
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